Laura's Corner

I work very hard and am attending college to obtain my degree in the Human Service field. Writing makes me feel alive and gives me the opportunity to touch those whom I would not be able to otherwise. Last but not least, I have been blessed with two amazing daughters who love me completely and support my dreams. Feel free to contact me with questions, concerns or feedback.


Yep, you heard it, size DOES matter, and more than one person agrees with me. 


When it comes to relationships, men and women agree that certain things fit and others do not.  What happens if you go there and discover someone is less or more than expected?  What would you do?  Would you go with the flow or search for the next best thing?  Not sure about you, but I want a perfect fit, every single time. 


With the sexual revolution changing minute by minute, men and women face the inevitable.  No one wants to go without, become a born-again virgin or allow the dust to settle.  Yet, when it comes to size, is that really the most important aspect of the relationship?  Absolutely!


Wait, you might say, what about the fact my partner is fabulous?  He or she is everything I need and want outside the bedroom.  Sure, he might not hit the spot each and every time, but has other skills which override the fact.  She may not be as good a fit as my previous girlfriend, but has a generous spirit and a warm heart, isn’t that enough.  With that I say, absolutely!


Speaking of size, not sure if we are on the same page, but how about we cover size in every other aspect?  Some may say what is important is the size of a man’s wallet, his bank account or his investments.  Men may state the size of a woman’s upper and lowers may contribute to lifelong happiness.  The truth of the matter is this, all of that will eventually fade; on the other hand, it may not.   What then should we focus on when choosing a partner for long term?  


Size matters, yet it is the size of so many overlooked aspects on which we should focus.  


When was the last time you heard a man say, “Wow, the size of my wife’s heart is what holds us together”.  Ever hear a woman utter, “The size of my husband’s patience creates a better woman in me”.  


Probably not. 


Size matters.  Ever take a look at your partner’s qualities from the inside out?  Ever consider them when deciding on a long term relationship?  Let’s dig deeper and bring them to the forefront.


The size of your partner’s compassion will allow you a partner through pain or cause you to reach towards others in your time of need.  How about the size of his or her forgiveness?  Ever deal with someone who has yet to let go of the past, from, let’s say, 20 years ago?  What about the size of their generosity or selflessness?  Ever wonder what it would be like if the size of your partner’s ability to care for you extended to the moon and back?  One might consider the size of their faithfulness and honesty as being in the forefront of a monogamous relationship.  


Each one of us gives much or very little.  Very seldom does it settle in the middle.  It’s black or white, good or bad.  When there is an imbalance of what each brings to the table, you will find the scales tipped in favor of one or the other.  


Great relationships are built on "sizemic" compatibility.  No relationship is 50/50, some reflect 90/10.  You may be more forgiving; your spouse may be more compassionate.  


If you desire a perfect size, you must dig deeper.  Sexual compatibility is important, yet what matters the most is the size of the heart, mind and spirit of each person involved.  Strike a balance for when the physical begins to fade, you will have a multitude of blessings to fall back on. 

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